For Giving

giving sets me free

Forgiveness is a ritual wrapped with cords of creed, but to the heart it’s holding on until the debt is free. The coin of debt is feeling owed an apology or pain. As long as I keep holding on, both deed and debit remain. The ties that bind grow ever taunt as time holds us in grip. Yet giving up means easing up, as the reins of tension slip. Was I wrong that you did me wrong and never held a debt? Did you acquire debt by desire: forgive, but not forget? If so, letting go releases you, for giving sets me free from the dungeon cell of my mind, whose prisoner looks like me.

About Me

Roger Kenyon was North America’s first lay canon lawyer and associate director at the Archdiocese of Seattle. He was involved in tech (author of Macintosh Introductory Programming, Mainstay) before teaching (author of ThinkLink: a learner-active program, Riverwood). Roger lives near Toronto and offers free critical thinking and character development courses online.

“When not writing, I’m riding—eBike, motorbike, and a mow cart that catches air down the hills. One day I’ll have Goldies again.”